So recently, I've decided to study the grammar rules of English in more detail. Despite only speaking English, I never really paid attention to grammar beyond the basics. It is only by closely looking at the rules of English grammar that I have come to realise how hard it is for me to master. I think the main thing that makes learning difficult is the way the same word can function in many different ways.
I find it hard to correctly identify the components of sentence just by looking at it. I particularly struggle with adverbs (clauses and phrases) and verbals. I find it hard to work out the subject and direct/indirect objects in unfamiliar sentences despite knowing what each component "does" on its own (in simple examples). The chameleon-like quality of words in English only makes things more difficult.
I've also tried to grasp proper punctutation usage and here again (despite understanding the function of each mark), I become confused. I find myself frequently conflicted about which punctuation mark would be most be most appropiate - especially when it comes to commas. I'll often read a piece of writing online and I'll come across a comma or a colon placement which contradicts the rules I have learned. A common one is a comma before a conjunction.
I suppose what I want to know is how do you guys master the rules of English grammar? How do you know you're doing it correctly? All I've been using so far are a few grammar books. Do you guys find yourself obsessing over punctuation and grammar when reading or writing? This is something I've noticed since I've started self-studying grammar. I find I can't enjoy a book or an article online because I'm constantly looking at the punctuation. I feel as if it's inhibiting my abilty to write confidently because I keep thinking about grammar and punctuation.
So yeah...just wondering how you guys learrned the rules of grammar and if you had any tips on writing more confidently (and honestly)?
I don't really have anything to add, but I saw that a book called Kiss My Asterisk: A Feisty Guide to Punctuation and Grammar was on sale today and thought of your post.