It's just about filling a hole. Getting that excitement of buying something is mostly a better feeling than eventually getting whatever it is what you bought (sans the X amount of hours/days honeymoon phase) that momentarily fills that hole.
Think about how much you really need it AND will use it.
Maybe say hey, my current phone does it's job. A newer version wouldn't add much besides my before mentioned points so perhaps I'll stash my money and save it for small (??) vacation or something.. That WILL give you a experience and memories that'll last a lifetime.
Just a thought.
It's mostly the THOUGHT of buying something (you don't really) need (???) that gives you that *fullfilling* rather than obtaining said something.
But the fuck do I know.
i appreciate the advice but i went through all that. part of me knew i didn't need another phone but i wanted it so got it. the phone i got wasn't even really an upgrade over the phone i have. i have an iPhone 12 Pro Max and i bought a Pixel 6A
. i wanted a new phone and i had £300 to burn. i know it's the idea of buying something and getting a hit that is getting at me. i'm buying shit i don't really need but i need a kick. it's sad i know.
anyway the Pixel 6A is sold and posted now. i got £189 back for it after ebay fees and postage.... so that's a loss of £109. yey
i'm currently fighting with myself regarding upgrading my PC
i want a new CPU, motherboard, RAM, SSD. the thing is i want a Ryzen 7700X and i know there are new CPUs coming out in a couple weeks. realistically i probably won't be able to buy them for about another month or maybe two. so what i'm thinking is i should buy everything now (including the 7700X) and use it until the new CPU comes out. i'll sell the 7700X and but the new CPU. but doing the calculations i'm going to be roughly losing £200 buying the 7700X, selling it, and buying a new CPU. i did think about buying the cheaper 7600X and doing the same thing. that way i might only be losing £150.
i know i'm being fucking stupid but that's the way my brain works. once i want something then it's all i can think about and i can't relax until i buy it. usually i tell myself to sleep on it or just wait but it always eats away at me. i'm trying to force myself to wait another 2-4 weeks and save £150-200 but i'm fucking itching to spend money